Father's day

 

 Fathers day 2020

Technically this is our 2nd/3rd fathers day. In 2018 we were pregnant with our first. We found out at the begining of June so it was every early days but we were still daddies. Then in 2019, we not only had our angel son celebrating from heaven but we were also pregnant with our rainbow. We did celebrate both these years as we were fathers from the moment we created life however it was special as this year having the chance to celebrate with our rainbow baby.

It was our first offical father's day with a living earth baby to cuddle and kiss. Celebrating the joys that everyday fatherhood has brought over these last 8 months with our daughter.

While she is still young it was still lovely. Me and Ariyah made daddy Ben a card, whilst Ben got me a book from Ariyah and a sloth rug. As I am obsessed with sloths that I have manage to pass this love down to ariyah who. Seems to love them too. See cuddles all. The sloth teddies she has aand loves look at her sloth wall stickers.

To have our daughter to hold and kiss is so magical on this specaail day however still very sad that we are daddies to an angel baaby who can not be here to physically hold or celebrate with. Whilst this is sad and we honor him everyday. We have to know hee is always with us. We see his smile and cheeky personality without his little sister. We have to make sure she iss cherished and doesn't feel like second best. Nico will always be our first and our son but Ariyah is also our gift and little miracle spent down from heaven from him.

We had a lovely day, we also had our newpth and sister (chosen not blood family) here for the weekend which was nice. We basically help raise him and have been there from day one. Caring for him alot when he was young. Then helping him develop, learn and grow. We watched him grow to this funny, cheeky and sometime sassy boy. His dad unfortunately is not around and it was so nice to get presents and love frrom him, as his male role models in life. We always look out for him as our own. Mj your two uncles have got your back. We love you.

Thank you shan our choosen sister for cook breakfast and making the day extra special.
So whether this is the first or 30th fathers day you. Are celebrating and whether your hhave the chilldren, dad's, grandads or faather figures with you on this day or not. Let's not forgot those we loved and lost and those we still have here to be thankful for.

We hope you had a great day as much as possible and make memories or to honor those who can't physically be here on this day. Weather your a child, a daddy, step daddy, uncle, grandad or mum that plays dad role. Or just someone who takes that roll on for anyone happy fathers day to you and for all those non binary parents out there.

(Written on father's day June 2020)